Should i just forget her?

after 2 and a half years of what i thought was tru love (was it?) we where so alike, but she had commitment isues, i got hurt and said i thought she was using me cause she was lonley, she got mad and told me she never wanted to see me again. we then met up and broke up 'amicably' this was over a month ago. i cant get her out of my head/heart for first time in a month i contacted her. she was all chatty and lovley: the reason i love her. was it me or her or where we just not meant to be or is she just protecting herself cause she got hurt bad in the past, how do i let her go? should i? is it true love tainted by fear? she said she needs to be on her own, no boys etc. both planned to go to australia together before we split, i was always planning to, now she says she's going too (not together) man i miss her loving feminine ways sooo much, one of the most painful experiences of my life not to mention confusing...i know its alot of question, but any inside info on this could help